Today we often hear about 'indigo children', we rarely even see the kids with this excess around us. There have been many experts who examine the nature of the characteristic or trait that distinguishes between normal indigo child with another child. For it would not hurt if we know about the characteristic and what behaviors are often shown by these indigo children.Indigo child is a new generation who were born in this world. This child has unique characteristics that distinguish the previous generation. The term indigo aura indicates the color of life. The word itself derives from the name indigo color is indigo, known as the color blue to violet. Indigo itself is also associated with a sixth sense which is located on the third eye chakra which describes intuition and tremendous inner strength sharply over the ability of ordinary people. Many of them have advantages with exceptional talent or academic achievement. Children who experience this indigo able to show empathy very deep and easy to feel compassion, and seemed wise for his age.
Indigo children come into the world with a variety of missions. Most of them are groundbreaking an incorrect order. They are in charge of straightening untruth and mismatches that occur around him. This is indicated by their behavior that is not obedient, and difficulties in running the existing system, such as denial and rigid attitude towards the existing education system.
Indigo children also often show a rebellious attitude toward authority, do not adhere to the rules or customs, the difficulties in managing their emotions, sensitive or fragile. Not infrequently the child also showed a very cool attitude and do not have feelings. Sometimes people will label a child with an indication of disturbance ADD (attention deficit disorder). Forms of behavior that sometimes results in difficulties for these children in the past childhood, adolescence and even in the past (Chapman. 2006).
Being Indigo is not easy, but it is a task that must be executed. Indigo child is one person who attended and brought something new to some progress on this earth.
January Yordy a therapist who wrote about trying to categorize the characteristics of indigo children indigo children are often encountered:
- Having a strong desire, self-reliant by doing what's on his mind rather than adhere to the will of parents;
- Wise and have a level of awareness and togetherness that exceeds his experience;
- Emotionally, they can easily react so that they often have problems with anxiety, depression or stress;
- Creative in thinking by using the right brain, but still must try to learn by using the left brain, especially in the school system;
- Indigo Children are often diagnosed as having ADD or ADHD when they show impulsive behavior (their brains process information faster) and they must keep moving to keep the focus;
- Children are very sensitive and can be seen, heard or knows about something that no ordinary people;
- These kids are visual and kinesthetic learning, they can remember what was recorded in the brain and created by hand;
- If the child wishes are not met, then the child feel the difficulties and become self-centered. While this is not the true nature;
- Children have the potential and extraordinary talent, but can go away if not in accordance with the form of parenting.
In dealing with this indigo child to note is that they have difficulty in managing emotions. In some children this was due to anxiety problems, the possibility of obsessive compulsive behavior or the excessive panic (panic attack). Other causes appear because they are trying hard to learn and understand how a traditional or routine habit. So it is not uncommon for them will have low self esteem and easily give up in doing a given (school work). Sometimes some indigo children showed a reaction of anger, depression, self harm and even excess which can not be explained logically and even scary for parents.
Indigo children have a high energy vibration patterns that persist, which is then shown with an aura of indigo color on his body. The highest vibration creates a difference to the functioning of the body and brain on indigo children. Most of them think by using the right brain. When the stress of children and then develop a setting in the brain, which waive logical thinking and rational thought processes, so it appears that excessive emotional reactions. There are also children who show the behavior of anger, sadness or fear of deep anxiety and even excessive.
Understanding the basic energy and able to observe the energy situation at the time a child is not stable is very helpful for parents or therapists, especially when working with these children. It takes a basic understanding of energy by teaching them how to protect themselves. Another thing that is no less important is to teach the indigo children and their parents on techniques to balance energy and ways to reduce stress levels in children, so children are not affected in a negative energy.
In recent years the news about "indigo children" pretty much covered in the media, just confirmed, the percentage numbers are still very small, about 10,000: 1. The small number of known indigo child, due to the attitude of parents who do not yet have the awareness to check the child to the psychologist. "Perhaps this is what causes the lack of valid data about the number of indigo children" he said. Why do we need to understand about "indigo children" this? Because there is a possibility that your child is an indigo, even you are all the children born is an indigo.
What is an "indigo child?"
Wendy Chapman, in writing Rossini, explaining that indigo children are children who are generally not easily governed by the rule, not easy to compromise, emotional and some of which have a fragile body, very talented or capable of academic excellence, and have the metaphysical ability. ADD children are often considered, although easy to be empathy and compassion towards others, or looking very cold and heartless, and have a policy beyond her years. Are these things as your own or your children?
When did the term "indigo children" found?
The term indigo children discovered by Nancy Ann Torp, a counselor, in the year 1970. He examines the human aura colors and link it with personality. Those who have this aura of indigo or indigo children who were awarded the excess, especially the ability of sixth sense.
Indigo Children have a higher awareness than most people about who they are and their purpose in life so require special treatment. But unfortunately, many people do not know how to manage and treat excess indigo children.
Does your child indigo?
To find out if your child or your own indigo, answer the following questions:
1) Does your child often behave like royalty?,
2) Does your child have a feeling deserved?,
3) Does your child have the feeling that he can understand?,
4) Is your child difficult to deal with discipline and authority?, 5) Does your child refuse to do certain things that are asked to do?,
6) Do not queue activity your child likes?,
7) Does your child does not like the ritual-oriented systems / mechanical and require little creativity?,
8) Does your child often can find ways of doing things better, either at home or at school?,
9) Does your child does not easily compromise?,
10) Does your child does not respond / afraid of the threat?, 11) Is your child easily bored towards the work assigned,
12) Does your child appear to have symptoms of ADD?,
13) Is your child creative?,
14) Does your child have seen a sharp intuition?, 15) Does your child have an outstanding attitude of empathy toward others?,
16) Does your child have an abstract idea?,
17) Is your child smart?,
18) Is your child very talented (which is identified as a gift)?
19) Has your child seen as a dreamer?,
20) Does your child's eyes emit visible adult eyes, wise and deep?,
21) Does your child have spiritual intelligence?
If you have 10 answers to "Yes", then your child probably is indigo. If you answer "yes" more than 15, then your child is confirmed as an indigo child.
Indigo is different, but not "abnormal"
Physical indigo children not much different from other children. Only the inner are leaning more mature. Indigo children often show an adult nature, very intelligent, and has a sixth sense that is very sharp. Indigo children generally do not want to be treated as children. Not infrequently they often give advice on their parents.
Indigo is not a disease or psychiatric disorders. Nevertheless, there is consider the phenomenon of indigo as psychiatric disorders. As a result the handling is often wrong, which will impact on the suffering of the child.
Tips to educate children indigo
Wendy Chapman, provides 10 tips to educate the indigo children, as follows:
1. Treat them with great appreciation. If you do not show our appreciation to them, they would also be so, even if you have the authority or power.
2. Listen to their opinions. They need to know that you care and recognize their value system.
3. Develop their abilities. Give them choices, such as type of product that will be studied, what is the command to work to be done, the choice between two activities. Having heard the voice that makes different flavors of self-esteem, usually will encourage them to participate in the choices they've made and the consequences will improve their attitude toward you and toward education.
4. Build a cooperative stance and avoid giving commands. Indigo Children will not care about the things that are meant to control them. They see themselves going to care about the treatment that is fair and good.
5. Help them do something different. If they are frustrated, such as school work, so they feel alone in the world, help encourage them to do something positive to change it. Such as writing letters, writing, poetry, make posters, T shirts, organizing discussion groups.
6. Help them develop their talents and abilities. Encourage them to be creative and dare to express their unique personality.
7. Be tolerant of extreme emotions. Help them create a balance using aromatherapy, let them drink water in class, be calm, or visualization exercises.
8. Encourage them to be a source of peace for others. Indigo was born to be a source of peace. Encourage them to practice it. This will build communication and compassion. Be a mentor in this regard.
9. Explain WHY for everything. Why there are rules, why do they need to do homework / school. Why does the world like this? If you do not have the answer, understand their frustration and show empathy.
10. Reduce medication for ADD. Indigo is not ADD, but natural indigo to give attention to something selectively. If they can focus on something they choose for a long time, chances are indigo children, not ADD. Although it seems there is a problem in attention, seek alternative therapies, rather than with Ritalin, do not suppress the natural creativity and leadership of indigo, but help to organize.
As a parent, you also have to make indigo child discipline, and make them learn about behavior that can be accepted or not. And learn to not do things that can not be accepted. Be fair, and give a reasonable tolerance limit. Tell the true age-appropriate, and do not lie because they will know. Say that he loved and embraced as much as possible.
Indigo also exploratory and a lot of energy. It would be very helpful if parents help channel the energy in a fun, productive and not dangerous.
Is indigo children can be successful? Experience proves, that a lot of indigo children that if the handling right, be successful, can graduate from university, there is a psychologist, psychiatrist, and even musicians reliable. So, consider carefully whether the family is an indigo? Do not worry, if you understand them and can manage well, the indigo child is a pleasant child, and his success rate in high society.
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